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Why knowing death is coming does not make child loss easier

My daughter died from a genetic condition and we knew it was coming but somehow that did not make it easier, and people assume anticipatory grief should have prepared me better.

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The illusion that preparation diminishes devastation misunderstands how hope and dread intertwine in terminal illness.

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