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When modern children resist traditional coming-of-age practices

My daughter turns thirteen next month and my mother-in-law insists we do the traditional ceremony but my daughter says it is embarrassing and old-fashioned and I am caught between them.

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The collision between ancestral wisdom and contemporary identity creates impossible choices for parents trying to honor both their children and their heritage.

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“Where Are You with Indigenous coming-of-age traditions?”

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