Periagoge
Scenario

When unwanted help creates obligation anxiety

My elderly neighbor shovels my sidewalk every time it snows even though I never asked him to and now I feel guilty every time it snows because I cannot reciprocate his physical labor.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unasked-for generosity can burden recipients with reciprocity debts they never agreed to carry.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Reciprocity as community foundation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.