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Scenario

When co-parents make unilateral decisions about shared costs

My ex-wife and I agreed to split kid expenses equally but she keeps signing them up for expensive activities without asking me and then expecting me to pay half.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Post-divorce reciprocity breaks down when one parent makes decisions that create financial obligations for both.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Reciprocity as community foundation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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