Periagoge
Scenario

How deathbed requests can conflict with justice

My grandfather is dying and asking everyone to reconcile with my uncle who sexually abused my cousin fifteen years ago, and the family is pressuring me to go along with it for grandpa's peace of mind.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A dying person's desire for family harmony can create pressure to participate in reconciliation that violates principles of accountability and protection.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist merit and the ripple of good action?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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