Periagoge
Scenario

When dying elders ask for promises you cannot keep

My grandmother is dying and she keeps asking me to promise I will move back to the islands after she passes but I have built my whole life here on the mainland

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The weight of ancestral expectations collides with the reality of a life built elsewhere.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Pacific Islander community values?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.