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Scenario

When loyalty requires deception

My husband's family here treats me like their daughter but they do not know I am sending most of our savings to my real family back home and I cannot tell them without destroying everything.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The competing claims of multiple families can force you into elaborate deceptions to avoid choosing between different forms of love.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Found family in migration and diaspora?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.