My in-laws expect me to bow to their family altar but it feels like I'm betraying my own ancestors and I don't know how to honor both families without choosing sides.
More people experience this than they realize.
Marriage creates competing ancestral allegiances that seem to demand exclusive loyalty.
“Where Are You with Confucian ancestral tablets and ongoing relationship?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.