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When competing languages divide grandparent relationships

My mother-in-law moved in to help with the babies but she speaks only Yoruba to them and my own mother is hurt that her grandchildren do not understand her English.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gift of multilingual heritage becomes a source of exclusion when different languages represent different claims on the children's identity.

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