My therapist says my anxiety about properly maintaining my grandparents' tablets is unhealthy but when I skip the rituals I feel like I am abandoning them and I cannot find peace either way.
More people experience this than they realize.
The psychological weight of inherited obligation becomes pathological when perfectionism replaces devotion.
“Where Are You with Confucian ancestral tablets and ongoing relationship?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.