My wife and I are lesbians and we want to join the country club for our daughter but we know we will be the diversity experiment and I hate performing palatability.
More people experience this than they realize.
The exhaustion of constant self-monitoring to meet unspoken standards of palatability transforms belonging into a performance rather than a right.
“Where Are You with Discrimination as belonging denied?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.