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Scenario

When spouse objects to ancestral tablets in the home

My wife refuses to allow my mother's tablet in our home because she says it makes her uncomfortable and I'm caught between honoring my mother and keeping peace in my marriage.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Competing loyalties between ancestral duty and marital harmony force an impossible choice between sacred obligations.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Confucian ancestral tablets and ongoing relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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