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Scenario

How to handle discomfort with your partner's ex without being controlling

My wife's ex-husband keeps texting her about things that are not related to their kids and she says it is harmless but it makes me uncomfortable and I do not want to seem controlling.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Legitimate boundary concerns are being complicated by fear of appearing possessive or insecure.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Trust as belonging infrastructure?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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