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Scenario

When siblings disagree about honoring parents' spiritual needs

My brother and I inherited responsibility for our aging parents who have very specific religious needs and expectations but we have completely different relationships with their faith tradition. Every decision about their care becomes a conflict about honoring their beliefs versus what we think is actually best for them, and we can't seem to find common ground that serves anyone well.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who love the same elders must navigate the tension between respecting inherited sacred practices and exercising their own moral judgment about care.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Spiritual-but-not-religious — what it actually means?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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