Periagoge
Scenario

When spouses move in opposite spiritual directions about sexuality and intimacy

My husband and I are both questioning our faith but in completely opposite directions - he's becoming more conservative about sexuality and intimacy while I'm feeling called toward something more open and embodied, and we can't even talk about it without one of us feeling like the other is abandoning everything we built together. We're sleeping in the same bed but living in different spiritual worlds and I don't know how to bridge that without betraying myself or losing him.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their evolving relationship with the sacred is pulling them toward incompatible understandings of sexual expression and embodiment.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Religion and sexuality?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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