My daughter and I are cosigning a loan for her graduate school but I think we're both focused on the monthly payment amount instead of the total cost, and she's way too optimistic about what she'll earn after graduation while I'm probably being too conservative about the whole thing.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're both using different mental frames and probability assessments, preventing you from reaching a realistic shared understanding of the financial commitment.
“Where Are You with Behavioral economics — biases in financial decisions?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.