Periagoge
Problem
Toward Love

Choose Healthier Relationships

Miraguide
The Pattern

You keep choosing partners who are wrong for you in the same specific ways. The attraction is real — and that's exactly what makes this worth examining. What you're attracted to is telling you something about what you believe you deserve.

What Mastery Looks Like

The capacity to love and be loved with clarity and openness

Helpful guides
Mira
Love & Relationships
Peri
Recognize this pattern?

Peri can help you tell whether this pattern is really the one you’re caught in, and point you toward where to start.

The Path Forward
This pattern is guided by Mira. When you’re ready to work through it, Mira can help you find the path — or ask Peri where to start.
Work with Mira
Related patterns

Patterns that often live alongside this one.

Problem
Be Open to Love Again
Problem
Break Unhealthy Relationship Patterns
Problem
Heal From Heartbreak
Problem
Let Go of Old Resentment
Problem
Understand Your Attachment Style

Working through choose healthier relationships?

Tell Peri what you’re noticing, and start where it actually helps.