Periagoge
Problem
Toward Devotion

Let Go of Old Resentment

Rumiguide
The Pattern

Forgiveness is not for them — it's for you. Carrying the resentment costs you. Not because it's wrong to be angry, but because sustained anger is a form of ongoing connection to the wound.

What Mastery Looks Like

A living relationship with what is sacred, beyond institutional form

Helpful guides
Rumi
Faith & Meaning
Peri
Recognize this pattern?

Peri can help you tell whether this pattern is really the one you’re caught in, and point you toward where to start.

The Path Forward
This pattern is guided by Rumi. When you’re ready to work through it, Rumi can help you find the path — or ask Peri where to start.
Work with Rumi
Related patterns

Patterns that often live alongside this one.

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Work Through a Crisis of Faith

Working through let go of old resentment?

Tell Peri what you’re noticing, and start where it actually helps.