Practice

Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs and the Choices You're Making

Explore how favoritism shapes your decisions and relationships. Uncover hidden costs through ancient wisdom and honest self-reflection in this powerful exa

Rabiaguide

What you’ll practice

This is a reflective practice guided by Rabia. It gives you one honest question to sit with — the kind that moves you from thinking about an idea to working with it.

The reflection itself unfolds in conversation with Rabia, where it adapts to your situation — so you practice it together rather than reading it off the page.

Practice this with Rabia

Begin the reflection in a coaching conversation, where it meets what you’re actually working through.

Understand first

The Trap of Conditional Belonging The Ego's Need to Be Chosen Pure Devotion Versus Instrumental Relationships The Corruption of Community Through Rank Belonging as Unconditional Inclusion

Go deeper

What Is Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs?Living with Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs The Examined Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs: What Nobody Tells You Favoritism — when it happens and what it costs: Questions Worth Asking

Peri

New to this practice?

Peri can explain what this practice is for, help you decide whether it fits what you’re working through, and point you to the right place to begin.

Ready to practice this?

Begin the reflection with your coach, or tell Peri what you’re working through.