How do I cope with exhaustion from perfecting everyone else's events?

You can pull off any event flawlessly, and you are quietly exhausted from making everyone else's moment perfect. That quiet is part of the weight; you carry it without showing it, pouring yourself into days that mean everything to others while your own reserves run low. The tiredness is the natural cost of caring this deeply, given out over and over. Remember what your work truly is: you build moments people keep for a lifetime, smoothed by effort no one sees. That is a real gift. But a gift that hollows you out cannot last, and you are not only the one who makes it perfect for everyone else. You count in this too. Start keeping something back for yourself. Put recovery on the calendar after the big events instead of sprinting into the next, and let good enough be enough where perfect is not worth the cost. You can keep making beautiful moments for others without vanishing into them. Your own moments deserve the same care you give everyone else's.