How do I find who I am underneath my job title?

You are starting to feel that there is more to you than the role you play, but you do not yet know how to reach it. That unsettled feeling is not a problem. It is the beginning of something. Most people never even sense the self beneath the title. You have, and now you are curious. The self underneath is not hidden in some dramatic place. It shows up in what moves you when no one is watching, what you would still care about if the job vanished tomorrow, how you treat people when there is nothing to gain. Those are the clues. The role is a costume. What wears it is you. Try one small experiment: spend an hour doing something that has nothing to do with work, and notice what you enjoy without any usefulness attached. That is a thread. Pull on it gently. You find the self beneath the role by living outside the role, a little at a time.