How do I fit in at work without losing myself?

You have learned to move between your own way of being and the workplace's, and to do it without pretending to be someone you are not. That is a genuine art. Many people either force themselves to blend in completely or refuse to bend at all. You have found the harder, better middle. The key is knowing the difference between style and self. How you phrase things, when you speak, how formal you are: these are style, and they can flex to fit the room. Your honesty, your values, the way you treat people: that is self, and it stays. When you keep that line clear, adapting never feels like betrayal. The risk over time is drift, adapting so smoothly that you stop noticing what you have quietly given up. So check in with yourself now and then. This week, ask one honest question: am I still recognizable to myself here? If the answer is yes, keep going. You are doing something rare and well.