How do I stop feeling drained from making everyone else's day perfect?

You can pull off any event flawlessly, and you are exhausted from pouring yourself into making everyone else's moment perfect. That tiredness makes sense. You spend your effort building days that matter enormously to other people, and it is easy for your own needs to vanish inside that work. The exhaustion is the cost of caring this much, poured out again and again. It is worth remembering what you actually give people: moments they will hold for years, made smooth by work they will never see. That is real and good. But a gift that empties you cannot be given forever, and you matter in the equation too, not only as the one who serves. Start protecting something for yourself. Build recovery into your schedule after big events instead of rolling straight into the next, and let some things be good enough rather than perfect, so the cost comes down. You can create beautiful days for others without disappearing inside them. Your moments count too.