What gentle physical practices help with stiffness and mobility when I'm very unwell?
When the body is weakened, we often become still—and stillness itself can deepen stiffness. But movement doesn't have to be ambitious. I'm talking about the smallest things: rotating your ankles in bed, gentle shoulder rolls, wiggling fingers and toes. If you can sit up, even for ten minutes, that changes something. The goal is never performance—it's presence. One person I knew could only lift her arm a few inches, but she did it daily, and it kept her feeling alive in her body. Work with a physical or occupational therapist who understands palliative care; they can show you what's genuinely safe for you. Heat helps—a warm bath, warm compress on tight shoulders. And if you have someone who can offer gentle touch—not massage as therapy, but as companionship—that matters too. Stillness has its own value, but so does the micro-movements that say: I'm still here, my body is still mine. The question isn't whether you can do traditional exercise. It's: what small movement brings you presence and ease today?