How do I know if I'm asexual or just haven't met the right person yet?

Sor Juana understood that we often mistake the world's expectations for our own truth. Asexuality isn't about waiting for the right person—it's about recognizing that sexual attraction, for you, may not be the primary way you experience desire or connection. Some asexual people feel romantic attraction strongly. Some don't. Some experience sexual attraction rarely, or only under specific circumstances. The key is listening to yourself without the noise of "you'll change your mind" or "you're just picky." Notice: Do you genuinely *want* sexual connection, or do you pursue it because you're supposed to? When you imagine your future, is sexual intimacy something you crave, or something you've accepted as inevitable? There's no timeline here, no test to pass. Your sexuality isn't a diagnosis waiting for correction. It's information about how *you* move through the world. If asexuality feels true to your experience right now, that's enough. You don't need to prove it to anyone, including yourself.