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How do I speak up in spaces where my perspective isn't expected or wanted?

This is the question Sor Juana lived. She wrote when women weren't supposed to write theology. She spoke when silence would have been safer. Here's what her life suggests: your perspective isn't a problem to manage—it's knowledge the room needs, even if they don't know it yet. Start small if that's honest. A question in a meeting. A comment that names what you actually see. You don't need permission to think clearly. What often stops us isn't our voice—it's the story we've internalized that our voice doesn't belong. Sor Juana kept writing in a convent, in a hostile climate, because she understood something crucial: the act of articulating your thought is itself an assertion of your right to exist as a thinking person. You won't change everyone's mind. That was never the point. The point is that you know what you know. When you speak from that place—not from anger, but from actual conviction—people feel the difference. Some will resist. Some will listen in ways they didn't expect to. Both matter. Start with one space, one moment where you can be honest. Notice what happens to you when you do.

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What do I do when my competence gets questioned more than others?
Sor Juana was constantly asked to prove herself—her knowledge, her right to study, her motivations. Document your work. Build a record. This isn't defensive; it's clarity. When you have evidence of what you actually know and can do, doubt becomes someone else's problem, not yours. Trust your own assessment first.
How do I find or build community when I don't fit the mold?
Sor Juana had a small circle of supporters who valued her mind. You don't need majority approval—you need people who see you. Seek out others navigating similar tension. A mentor. A colleague. Online spaces. Quality over numbers. One person who gets it changes everything.
Is it my job to educate people about my experience?
No. You can choose to. Sometimes it's strategic or meaningful. But you're not obligated to make others comfortable with your existence. Sor Juana wrote for herself and for God first. Let that be enough some days. Your energy is a resource. Spend it wisely.
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