How do I know what data companies are collecting about me online?
Start where the friction is. Most platforms have privacy settings buried three clicks deep—that's intentional. You can request your data from major companies through GDPR (Europe) or CCPA (California) laws; others have similar frameworks. But here's what Laozi understood: you don't need to audit every stream. Pick the platforms where you spend actual time—email, social, search. Look at their privacy policies, not for perfection, but for honesty about *what they're selling*. Some companies are explicit; others use language designed to obscure. Then ask yourself: which of these relationships still feel worth it? I've found that naming the exchange—admitting 'I trade location data for convenience'—changes how you move through it. You stop pretending. From there, small choices compound. Disable location history on one app. Switch search engines. The goal isn't paranoia or total escape; it's clear sight. You're learning to see the current before you decide whether to swim with it.