How do I know if I'm grieving multiple losses at the same time too much?

There's no such thing as 'too much' grief when you're carrying several losses at once. What often happens is that people expect themselves to process losses in neat sequence—one closed, then the next—but life doesn't work that way. You might be grieving a death, a relationship ending, and a job loss simultaneously, and your heart has to hold all of it. Mirabai knew something about this kind of layering. Her devotion to Krishna was inseparable from her loneliness, her family's rejection, her own body's suffering. She didn't compartmentalize. She let the griefs inform each other, even sharpen each other. What matters is whether you're *avoiding* the feelings or *drowning* in them without any air. If you're naming each loss, letting yourself feel it without judgment, and still showing up for the people and things that matter—you're not grieving too much. You're grieving true. If you notice you can't get out of bed for weeks, you're harming yourself, or the grief is becoming your entire identity with no space for anything else—that's worth talking to someone about. Not because your grief is wrong, but because you might need support to carry it.