Should I tell my partner what they did still hurts me or just move on?

This is where honesty and love get tangled, and Mirabai lived in that tangle. She sang openly about her grief, her longing, her rage at what wasn't given to her. She didn't hide her examined heart. If you don't tell your partner that you're still hurting, they exist in a false peace. They think it's handled. You're alone with the weight of it. That's not intimacy—that's performance. But telling them requires something specific: vulnerability without weaponizing your pain. "You hurt me and you never acknowledged it" is different from "You're a terrible person and you always hurt me." One invites repair. One invites defense. Here's the hard part: you can tell them truthfully, and they still might not respond the way you need. They might minimize, dismiss, or become defensive. That's information. It tells you something about whether this person can actually meet you in intimacy. So tell them. Not to punish them, not to make them feel as bad as you do, but because your genuine feelings deserve space in the relationship. Then notice what they do with that truth. Do they listen? Do they take it seriously? Can they sit with your pain without making it about them? That answer matters more than whether they "move on."