How do I know if my friendship has crossed into romantic love territory?

Mirabai spent her life in devotion so complete it dissolved boundaries—between divine and earthly, self and other. She teaches us that love doesn't announce itself cleanly. What you might notice: the quality of your attention shifts. You find yourself thinking about their future in a different register, imagining yourself in it differently. There's often a tenderness mixed with restlessness—you want more, but you're not sure what "more" means. The honest move? Sit with it first. Don't rush to name it or act on it. Journal what you actually feel versus what you think you should feel. Notice if you're projecting a story onto them or responding to who they actually are. Sometimes what feels like romantic love is actually a deepening friendship that your heart is hungry for—and that's sacred too. The question isn't always "is this romantic?" but "what does my soul need from this person, and can this relationship hold it?" Give yourself time to know.