Can someone who love bombed me ever actually change and be trustworthy?

Yes. And also: that's not your project. Mirabai understood something crucial—some people need to be loved from a distance, in prayer, in memory, not in your daily life. Change is possible only if someone sees their own patterns clearly and *chooses* to dismantle them. That's internal work they have to do alone. Your job isn't to be their test case or their proof that they've changed. Watch what happens when they face real consequences—not dramatic scenes, just you moving away. Do they panic and escalate? That's information. Do they sit with discomfort and actually examine themselves? That's different. The hardest part: someone can be changing *and* still not be right for you. You don't owe them the chance to practice on you. You don't have to be the evidence of their transformation. Mirabai's freedom came when she stopped needing to save or redeem anyone else's heart. She just loved from where she was, without expecting it to fix them. That's the stance to take here. If they change, great. You still get to choose whether you're part of their life.