To garden is to enter into a relationship with time that has no shortcuts — seeds do not respond to urgency, and the soil is the most honest feedback mechanism ever invented. Nasreddin planted a tree for shade he would not live to sit under, because he understood that not everything good is meant for you specifically, and that this is not a reason to withhold the planting. The garden is where impatience goes to be educated.
Each step builds on the last.