Triangulation happens when a child feels caught between biological parents or between a biological parent and stepparent, forced to choose sides or carry messages, which leaves them anxious and divided regardless of which adult they placate. Prevention means both adults explicitly choosing not to use the child as messenger, mediator, or spy, even when it's convenient.
Child Triangulation Prevention Protocol refers to a set of communication rules and behavioral agreements designed to stop children from being placed in the middle of adult conflicts, used as messengers, or asked to take sides between households.
Triangulation causes lasting psychological harm to children in blended families and often happens unintentionally, so AI can help parents identify triangulating patterns in their own language, draft household agreements that prohibit the behavior, and create scripts for redirecting children when they attempt to relay adult grievances.
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