The paradox that true autonomy emerges through freely chosen commitment to something larger than the self, dissolving the false separation between independence and interdependence.
Mirabai's radical devotion to Krishna was not imposed duty but chosen love—a voluntary surrender that paradoxically liberated her from social convention and family constraint. This reframes autonomy not as isolation but as the freedom to commit deeply. In Autonomy and Togetherness, this concept teaches that genuine independence includes the capacity to bind oneself to others, values, or purposes without losing agency. The examined heart asks: what am I choosing to be devoted to, and does this choice reflect my deepest truth? Devotion becomes a practice of aligning personal will with authentic desire, creating interdependence that strengthens rather than diminishes both self and community.
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