Spiritual discipline and austerity as a form of devotion that includes refusing to harm yourself or enable harm from others.
Tapasya traditionally means austerity or spiritual discipline—a willing submission to practice that purifies and strengthens. Mirabai's life embodied tapasya: she renounced comfort, family approval, and social status in service to her devotion. Yet tapasya is not punishment; it is love directed inward. Modern boundaries represent a form of tapasya: the discipline to honor your own needs even when others resist, to say no even when it costs you, to refuse to betray yourself. This spiritual rigor is an act of devotion to your own integrity and to the relationships that matter. Mirabai's tapasya meant she could not remain in situations that required her to suppress her truth. Your boundaries, rooted in tapasya, become acts of spiritual commitment—to yourself and to the possibility of authentic love.
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