To leave a faith tradition is one of the most significant passages a human life can contain — a kind of death and rebirth that is rarely discussed with the seriousness it deserves. Deconstruction is the process of taking apart the beliefs, practices, and community structures that once organized a life, examining what is real and what was fear, what was genuine and what was inherited. The person who leaves a tradition deserves the same compassion and intellectual seriousness that we offer to those who join one — for they too are searching, perhaps more honestly than ever.
Rumi