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Knowledge + Guidance

Why do bad vendors and disputes still eat my whole week?

You can run the willing vendors with your eyes closed by now. It's the resistant ones — the underperformers, the ones in dispute — that still land on your desk every week. That's not because you lack a system. It's because you haven't yet made the decision those cases require. A dispute that drags on for months isn't a hard problem. It's an easy problem you and your team keep avoiding, hoping the vendor changes on their own. They won't. Someone has to name the deadline and hold it. Do this with your team, not alone. Agree together on what "underperforming" means, who decides when to cut a vendor, and how long a dispute is allowed to live. Once that's shared, the next dispute stops being a debate and becomes a checklist.

◆ How this problem reads on the two dials
GuidanceKnowledge
More coaching
A little to learn
1:1 with AureliusWith others (a Pod)
Some one-to-one
Practise with peers
The team already knows vendor management basics; what's missing is the will to decide, so guidance dominates over teaching.
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What’s really going on

You built a system for people who cooperate. It fails on those who don't — that's not a flaw, it's a gap you haven't closed. Sort every underperforming vendor into coach, warn, or cut, today. Give disputes a deadline. Ambiguity is what's costing you time, not the vendor.

🔒 What you’ll build togetherUnlock by starting
A moveWith your team, list every underperforming vendor by name today — no vague categories.
A moveSort each one into exactly three bins: coach, put on notice, or cut. Refuse a fourth bin.
A moveSet a hard deadline for every open dispute. No dispute lives past 30 days.
A moveName one person with authority to close disputes without escalating to you.
A moveWrite down your exit criteria for a vendor now, before you need them under pressure.
PractiseVendor Triage · a Pod of 4 · 30 min

What changes unlock by starting

  • Your vendor list is sorted into clear categories, not left vague.
  • Every open dispute has a deadline instead of open-ended waiting.
  • One person on your team can decide and act without waiting on you.
  • You stop re-discussing the same underperformer every single week.
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