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Why do real risks still slip past our diligence?

You run the process. Documents get read, calls get made, numbers get checked. And still something gets past you — a partner turns out unreliable, a hire fails, a deal sours in ways nobody flagged. This is not bad luck. The gap is not in your method. It is in what your team wanted to believe before it started looking. A pod that wants a deal to work will read unclear evidence as fine. This happens quietly. It happens to smart people together, and that makes it worse — you confirm each other instead of checking each other. You cannot fix this with more diligence steps. You fix it by changing who in the room gets rewarded for doubt.

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The core insight (motivated reasoning inside groups) needs brief teaching, but the fix lives almost entirely in changing team habits and roles.
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What’s really going on

You do not need a longer checklist. You need to name, out loud, what you and your team want to be true before you look at anything. Then put someone in the room whose only job is to argue against the deal. That is where the missed risk was hiding.

🔒 What you’ll build togetherUnlock by starting
A moveBefore you open a single document, say out loud what you and your team hope is true.
A moveGive one person the explicit job of finding reasons to walk away — every time.
A moveWrite your kill criterion before you start: one finding that ends the deal, no matter what you've already spent.
A moveSplit the roles: the person who found the opportunity should not be the one who judges it.
A moveAfter the decision, write down what you expected to find. Compare it to what you actually found.
PractiseThe Devil's Chair · a Pod of 4 · 30 min

What changes unlock by starting

  • Your team names its wish before reading the evidence, not after.
  • One person in every review is rewarded for saying no.
  • You have a written kill criterion, and you actually honor it.
  • Fewer bad surprises after closing, because someone was paid to look for them.
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