The Pattern
Forgiveness is not for them — it's for you. Carrying the resentment costs you. Not because it's wrong to be angry, but because sustained anger is a form of ongoing connection to the wound.
What Mastery Looks Like
A living relationship with what is sacred, beyond institutional form
The Path Forward
Related patterns
Patterns that often live alongside this one.
Working through “Let Go of Old Resentment”?
Talk it through with Rumi, and start where it actually helps.