LibraryPatternsCarry Loss That Comes With the JobAfter decades of walking with the dying, I carry a li…

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After decades of walking with the dying, I carry a lifetime of others' grief, and I'm unsure who has ever walked with me.

Part of the pattern: Carry Loss That Comes With the Job

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