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Problem
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I chose my field of study young, for reasons that made sense to an eighteen-year-old, and I have spent years in a direction it set that I would not choose now. The early decision still shapes my options, and I resent how much weight it has carried.

Part of the pattern: Work Through Career Regret
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You might also say it as
  • “I regret the field I studied”
  • “my degree set a direction I would not choose now”
  • “an early study choice still shapes my options”
The path forward
  1. 1Name the early decision's weight
  2. 2Explore what you'd choose now
  3. 3Take one step toward it
One thing to try this week
List the transferable skills your field gave you this week, separate from its content. The training is rarely as binding as the label it put on you.
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