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Find Meaning in Your Work
I have been in this organisation for so long that I c…
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I have been in this organisation for so long that I cannot assess it objectively. The familiarity has removed perspective. I do not know if I would choose this place if I were choosing now.
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Find Meaning in Your Work
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Seek an outside perspective
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Ask if you'd choose this now
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Let the answer guide you
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One thing to try this week
Ask yourself one question this week: if I were offered this role at this organisation today, would I take it? Let the honest answer be information.
Related problems
A reorganisation or acquisition changed everything, and the meaning I used to find in this work died with the old version of it. The job has the same title but a different soul, and I am grieving a workplace that no longer exists.
By any external measure I am successful. It does not feel good. Something is missing.
Early in the career the work carried genuine passion. Over time the passion became professionalism — competent, reliable, committed, but no longer driven by what originally fuelled it. I do it well because I am a professional. That is all.
Every rejection feels personal, and my mood rides the last yes or no all day.
I am good at my job and I know it. But I feel almost nothing when I do it. It feels completely hollow.
I am here for the pension, the insurance, the stability, and the known quantity. The meaning is thin or absent. I have been honest with myself about the financial reasons and not honest about the cost to meaning.
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