Practice

A Hard Question About Leaving a community

Explore what truly holds you to your community. Uncover deeper motivations through ancient wisdom and thoughtful reflection prompts.

Rabiaguide

What you’ll practice

This is a reflective practice guided by Rabia. It gives you one honest question to sit with — the kind that moves you from thinking about an idea to working with it.

The reflection itself unfolds in conversation with Rabia, where it adapts to your situation — so you practice it together rather than reading it off the page.

Practice this with Rabia

Begin the reflection in a coaching conversation, where it meets what you’re actually working through.

Understand first

The Clearing of Accounts: Honest Communication Before Departure Legacy Through Transmission of Love, Not Control Solitude as Continuation of Devotion, Not Rejection of Community The Dissolving of Ego in Communal Separation The Practice of Conscious Grief in Transition

Go deeper

Leaving a community: From Confusion to Clarity Leaving a community in Practice Living with Leaving a community Leaving a community: Questions Worth Asking Why Leaving a community Matters

Peri

New to this practice?

Peri can explain what this practice is for, help you decide whether it fits what you’re working through, and point you to the right place to begin.

Ready to practice this?

Begin the reflection with your coach, or tell Peri what you’re working through.