My business partner and I have been splitting everything 50/50 for two years but now she's putting in maybe 30% of the work while I'm burning out trying to keep us afloat and we both pretend this isn't happening. I think she knows I know but we've built this whole dynamic around avoiding conflict and I don't know how to break it without breaking us.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're doing far more than your equal partner but pretending it's fine because facing it might end everything.
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