My partner and I are both police officers and we've been bringing the job home in ways that are eating at our marriage - we process trauma differently and I shut down when they want to talk through the bad calls, and they get frustrated when I need silence, and we're both carrying too much without knowing how to help each other anymore.
More people experience this than they realize.
You and your partner both carry the job home and cope so differently it's pulling you apart.
“Where Are You with Public Safety — Security & Protective Services?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.