My partner and I are both police officers and we've been bringing the job home in ways that are eating at our marriage - we process trauma differently and I shut down when they want to talk through the bad calls, and they get frustrated when I need silence, and we're both carrying too much without knowing how to help each other anymore.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people sharing both professional trauma and personal intimacy are discovering their different coping mechanisms are creating distance rather than connection.
“Where Are You with Public Safety — Security & Protective Services?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.