My site reliability partner and I have been on-call together for two years and lately when systems go down he disappears for hours without explanation and I end up handling everything alone, but when I try to bring it up he acts like I'm being dramatic and I'm starting to question whether I'm the problem.
More people experience this than they realize.
Your partner keeps leaving you to handle everything alone, then makes you feel crazy for bringing it up.
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