Our first-time homebuyer group has been meeting for six months to learn about the process together but now that people are actually getting pre-approved and making offers the dynamic has changed and there's this weird competitive tension. Two people have already bought places and the rest of us are happy for them but also feeling behind and I think we're not talking about how this is affecting the group.
More people experience this than they realize.
Success within the group is triggering comparison and scarcity thinking that's undermining the original collaborative purpose.
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