The four of us who went through YC together still meet monthly but it's become this weird performance where everyone shares good news and avoids talking about the real struggles, even though I know we're all dealing with difficult stuff. I miss the honesty we used to have but I don't know how to get it back without being the one who brings down the mood.
More people experience this than they realize.
A group has unconsciously shifted from vulnerability to social comparison, losing the very thing that made it valuable.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.