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Scenario

When firefighter friendships become competitive instead of supportive

The three of us came up through the academy together and now we're at different stations but we still get together and lately when we talk about the job it feels like we're all trying to prove we're the toughest or most experienced rather than being real about what this work is actually doing to us and our families and I miss having friends who actually understood.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A cohort of peers has unconsciously shifted from mutual support to performance, losing the authentic connection they need to process their shared professional challenges.

Your guide for this
Aurelius
Aurelius works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Public Safety — Fire & Rescue?”

Peri

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