My college roommate works for a renewable energy startup and makes more money than I do in oil and keeps sending me job postings but I cannot tell if he is trying to help me or judge me.
More people experience this than they realize.
A friend keeps sending you job openings, and you can't tell if he's helping you or looking down on you.
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.